James J. Davis
2 min readJan 26, 2021

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COMMUNICATING IN SILENCE IN PRIVATE

This is the most important thing. Relationships are built on trust. The more trust, the more satisfying and satisfying the relationship is.

A conversation, a trusting conversation, is the best thing that strengthens the relationship between husband and wife.

And there are no excuses here. For example, a child.

My experience is that such communication can be at any time. For example, at our place late at night, when the child is asleep, the dishes are washed, we can have a leisurely conversation and share the most important things.

DISHWASHING

Washing dishes is a sign of a man's "coolness." Not all families have a dishwasher - but everyone has dishes. And they can often be a stumbling block.

If you make it a rule to always wash the dishes, you'll save your wife one constant headache.

DINNER

Cooking something new and delicious always piques your wife's interest. This is how you show her that she is valuable to you.

SEE IMPROVEMENTS.

A woman is always trying to look her best. It's very important to notice this.

Not only when she has completely repainted her hair, but even when she is wearing a new thing.

TO HEAR THE REQUESTS, AND, IF POSSIBLE, TO COMPLY

The longer you're together, the more issues need to be addressed. And not just nail the proverbial painting. Take out the trash, vacuum, come home early from work, give time to your child.

Hearing requests is love.

UNEXPECTATIONS

Unexpectedness is for your wife, planned activities are for you. I'm not talking about a restaurant or a trip to the Maldives. I'm talking about the simple little things - to buy a picture frame and put a picture together. I'm talking about buying your wife her favorite ice cream in the evening. Or to give an aquarium and spend the whole weekend looking for fish for it.

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James J. Davis
James J. Davis

Written by James J. Davis

Software developer with 30 years of experience

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